I'm torn on this one. I truly believe the administration sets things up to make it a nice environment for everyone. I think Schaus and McDavis do everything they personally can to make you feel welcome when you are a guest of theirs. The problem lies with the other guests. The "regulars" are often crotchety and indifferent to your presence. This doesn't just happen in Peden. It happens in the Rohr Room, Mem Aud, Baker Center events, etc. These are the same folks that get pissed if you accidentally sit in their pew at church or get seated next to them at Sunday Brunch at the country club when you have the audacity to bring children to the dining room. I usually get mad at these folks because they seem to easily forget what it was like to be younger and new to that scene. Then, I remind myself I'm 30 years younger than them and they'll all be dead soon anyway.
There has to be some sort of security procedure to make sure only invited guests are in there. I'll bet in was someone that is very green, like a Sports Ad student providing that security. I tend to cut them some slack. They are learning the ropes and may have never been in a luxury box in their life. I had no idea how to act the first time I was in one.