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Posted: 11/16/2015 6:09 PM
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Come on, Alan. How does this:
To state that claims of an exclusionary culture are circumstantial at best makes me embarrassed that you were able to graduate from OU and still hold those beliefs. Are universities no longer sending people into the world with the ability to look around them and see what's going on? God help us all.
align with this:
But God forbid, we reach out to each other, we listen to each other. That plea extends to so many areas. But as we all know, our current society (social, or political) reprimands any intent for such dialogue and progress.
Perfectly because we are saying exactly the same thing.

So disrespecting your political opponent fits with CC's admonition to "reach out to each other... listen to each other"? I'll let Situation respond for himself, but I'm fairly sure he's not suggesting there's no such thing as racism or discrimination. What he is saying is that this particular protest is misguided, off-base, poorly done. And if you admit that he's right about that, it doesn't mean the whole concept of protesting racism is wrong. It's just an observation that this particular protest is whacked. Like so many other arguments, everyone runs to their polar opposite corners, refuses to budge, and then claims the other corner is "stupid."
Actually, what he's saying is this particular protest is misguided, so there's no need to discuss underlying tensions. It's a rhetorical technique both sides use against each other, and it leads to a lack of dialogue and progress. These protesters have made mistakes, so we ignore complete valid root causes. Racism is real, sure, but why discuss it now? That kid's rich, and that journalism professor's an idiot, and something something the Affordable Care Act, for some reason? And you say that as if next week, you're gonna raise the topic again and we'll talk about it then.

Why not address issues when they're raised? The more open the dialogue, the less protestors feel the need to take such extreme measures.
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Posted: 11/16/2015 6:39 PM
Bobcat Love's Sense of Shame wrote:expand_more
...It's a rhetorical technique both sides use against each other, and it leads to a lack of dialogue and progress.
+1,000 - excellent post.

And the cable networks and AM talking heads have perfected it. When something happens, bring on a loon from the other side and you paint the "others" as misguided, even dangerous. The journalist professor was a gift to those in this last instance. What is not shown is that "the activists/protesters" did not rush to her request. But the talkings didn't care.
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Posted: 11/16/2015 7:08 PM
Again, because the protestors have not well publicized their complaints and their solutions. Therefore, the publicity surrounding this whole affair is focused on the actual protest itself, which was a calamity.

If you're going to advise a protest, you advise them to put their issues front and center. Before everything else. So that the issues define the protest. In this case, the issues were buried behind a poorly received protest, a "loony" journalism professor, a pack of protestors unwilling to allow a photographer to walk into a "safe space," a demand for the university president to denounce his "white privilege," an antagonizing display as part of the homecoming parade. There may be more, but that's enough. All of these things together completely overwhelmed any legitimate beef these folks may have had. Now the story has completely left them.
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Posted: 11/16/2015 8:01 PM
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Again, because the protestors have not well publicized their complaints and their solutions. Therefore, the publicity surrounding this whole affair is focused on the actual protest itself, which was a calamity.

If you're going to advise a protest, you advise them to put their issues front and center. Before everything else. So that the issues define the protest. In this case, the issues were buried behind a poorly received protest, a "loony" journalism professor, a pack of protestors unwilling to allow a photographer to walk into a "safe space," a demand for the university president to denounce his "white privilege," an antagonizing display as part of the homecoming parade. There may be more, but that's enough. All of these things together completely overwhelmed any legitimate beef these folks may have had. Now the story has completely left them.
Sorry, but this is B.S. To type this to me, you used a machine connected to every single piece of data the world has ever created. You want to know the protesters demands? You can, in about 7 seconds. But the truth is, you don't. You want to discredit them.

Don't act like there was an honest dialogue taking place, but gosh darn, those protesters were just too incoherent and their methods betrayed them. The media on one side sensationalizes the triggering events, the media on the other rushes to discredit the individual actors, and 90% of our country rushes blindly to the side of the room they always stand on.

Hell, for further proof that this is the case, just read this thread. The lines were drawn in the sand before half of the things you mentioned had even taken place yet.
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Posted: 11/16/2015 8:04 PM
Robert Fox wrote:expand_more
So disrespecting your political opponent fits with CC's admonition to "reach out to each other... listen to each other"? I'll let Situation respond for himself, but I'm fairly sure he's not suggesting there's no such thing as racism or discrimination. What he is saying is that this particular protest is misguided, off-base, poorly done. And if you admit that he's right about that, it doesn't mean the whole concept of protesting racism is wrong. It's just an observation that this particular protest is whacked. Like so many other arguments, everyone runs to their polar opposite corners, refuses to budge, and then claims the other corner is "stupid."
This is what I'm saying.

cc-cat wrote:expand_more
...It's a rhetorical technique both sides use against each other, and it leads to a lack of dialogue and progress.
+1,000 - excellent post.

And the cable networks and AM talking heads have perfected it. When something happens, bring on a loon from the other side and you paint the "others" as misguided, even dangerous. The journalist professor was a gift to those in this last instance. What is not shown is that "the activists/protesters" did not rush to her request. But the talkings didn't care.
Woah. Woah. Woah. Woah. Check yourselves.

I'm certainly not calling for a lack of dialogue or progress. I'm logging in taking time out of my day to oppose your opinions and make my case with some honest to god effort.

If that's not dialogue I don't know what is (oh wait. I'm embarrassed Alan Swank has an OU degree blah blah blah blah blah.....)
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Posted: 11/16/2015 8:07 PM
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Hell, for further proof that this is the case, just read this thread. The lines were drawn in the sand before half of the things you mentioned had even taken place yet.
So you're saying even though some people thought this thing had clown written on it from a mile away, it was impossible to predict this would actually turn into the clown show that it is now?
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Posted: 11/16/2015 9:07 PM
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Sorry, but this is B.S. You want to know the protesters demands? You can, in about 7 seconds.
To the contrary, nothing I posted was B.S. Your suggestion above is not the way messaging works. You don't put out a half-ass message and then hope your intended audience will research what you really meant to say.
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Posted: 11/16/2015 9:16 PM
I think the last time Robert and I were in a discussion on a contentious moral topic (about 2 years ago) we were on opposite sides of the isle.

I don't think we're both addressing you Shame because we've changed our views enough to come across the isle. Instead I think this Missouri thing is just so ridiculous that we can both agree.
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Posted: 11/16/2015 9:29 PM
No phone ,no lights, no motor car,
not a single luxury
like Robinson Crusoe
it's primitive as can be.
So join us here each week my friends,
you're sure to get a smile,
from seven stranded Cats away
here on Bobcat Attack Isle!
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Posted: 11/16/2015 9:37 PM
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No phone ,no lights, no motor car,
not a single luxury
like Robinson Crusoe
it's primitive as can be.
So join us here each week my friends,
you're sure to get a smile,
from seven stranded Cats away
here on Bobcat Attack Isle!
That's funny because the trees on the isle were in my way when I tried to hear situation across the aisle.
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Posted: 11/17/2015 1:22 AM
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The more you explain yourself, the worse it gets. Let's just agree to disagree and let this place get back to discussing football. Enjoy your worldview. I'll enjoy mine.
You mean like the guy in the truck with the "racial slurs"? The guy that gets to continue enjoying his world view while the student group is enjoying theirs?

Mizzu's president is out of a job, but don't expect anything to change.

My hypothesis is we can continue to expect the "racially" divided status quo in this country because people with argumentative positions like yours genuinely think they're winning "tough conversations" when in reality they're only winning the tug of war when there's literally no one on the other side of the rope.

Why is no one picking up the other side of the rope you're pulling?

Why pick up the rope and expose your world view at the risk of a life you enjoy being tar and feathered by a politically correct mob?

Pull on the lives people enjoy with your rope and then see who pulls back. Your opinion isn't as strong as you think it is.
Situation--You may think that you're being clear here. But you're not. You need to write more directly. Skip the metaphors and elliptical stuff. Re-read what you write before you post it. I challenge anyone to explain away the ambiguity/lack of clarity in what you wrote above.

No one can argue against it 'cause it can't be understood.
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Posted: 11/17/2015 5:55 AM
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Situation--You may think that you're being clear here. But you're not. You need to write more directly. Skip the metaphors and elliptical stuff. Re-read what you write before you post it. I challenge anyone to explain away the ambiguity/lack of clarity in what you wrote above.

No one can argue against it 'cause it can't be understood.
Literally. LITERALLY.

Robert Fox came on here (not just in this thread but on this very page) and succinctly summarized my posts.

Am I being clear when I say you personally are a living breathing embodiment of white privilege in this country? Or do you really not understand how unrelatable your life in Oxnard, California is to the statistically average life of a black person in the Midwest?
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Alan Swank wrote:expand_more
No phone ,no lights, no motor car,
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like Robinson Crusoe
it's primitive as can be.
So join us here each week my friends,
you're sure to get a smile,
from seven stranded Cats away
here on Bobcat Attack Isle!
That's funny because the trees on the isle were in my way when I tried to hear situation across the aisle.
Touché guys
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Posted: 11/17/2015 10:03 AM
Situation--Uh, I might not have grown up in CA. And, I might not actually spend much time in Oxnard, despite having a home there, due to working too far from there to be able to commute to my job.

Your assumption that you know all about others' circumstances...and pretty much everything that the world is about...is interesting. Must be nice to know it all.
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Posted: 11/17/2015 12:03 PM
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Sorry, but this is B.S. You want to know the protesters demands? You can, in about 7 seconds.
To the contrary, nothing I posted was B.S. Your suggestion above is not the way messaging works. You don't put out a half-ass message and then hope your intended audience will research what you really meant to say.
They didn't put out a half assed message. They published a clear list of demands. You have to research it because the media won't cover it for you, and because it's a completely necessary step in the age of modern media. The media, on both sides, isn't interested in covering this in an issue based way, and the protesters demands were never the story. One side's media discredits individuals involved for page views, the other side's tries to stoke the flames of hysteria about the racist incidents for even more page views.

If your expectations are that the media will cover the demands of any group of protesters clearly and succinctly, you're going to be let down. That's never the case any more, but that still doesn't excuse anybody interested from not learning more. You can't be bothered to educate yourself about the stance of the protesters involved because "that's not how messaging works?" Then your opinion matters less. Plain and simple.
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Posted: 11/17/2015 12:05 PM
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Again, because the protestors have not well publicized their complaints and their solutions. Therefore, the publicity surrounding this whole affair is focused on the actual protest itself, which was a calamity.

If you're going to advise a protest, you advise them to put their issues front and center. Before everything else. So that the issues define the protest. In this case, the issues were buried behind a poorly received protest, a "loony" journalism professor, a pack of protestors unwilling to allow a photographer to walk into a "safe space," a demand for the university president to denounce his "white privilege," an antagonizing display as part of the homecoming parade. There may be more, but that's enough. All of these things together completely overwhelmed any legitimate beef these folks may have had. Now the story has completely left them.
Sorry, but this is B.S. To type this to me, you used a machine connected to every single piece of data the world has ever created. You want to know the protesters demands? You can, in about 7 seconds. But the truth is, you don't. You want to discredit them.

Don't act like there was an honest dialogue taking place, but gosh darn, those protesters were just too incoherent and their methods betrayed them. The media on one side sensationalizes the triggering events, the media on the other rushes to discredit the individual actors, and 90% of our country rushes blindly to the side of the room they always stand on.

Hell, for further proof that this is the case, just read this thread. The lines were drawn in the sand before half of the things you mentioned had even taken place yet.
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Posted: 11/17/2015 12:22 PM
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You can't be bothered to educate yourself about the stance of the protesters involved because "that's not how messaging works?" Then your opinion matters less. Plain and simple.
My opinion matters exactly the same as yours. And if you think the public is going to go out of their way to research the demands of this group, it is you who will be let down.

If these demands are so reasonable, why aren't you repeating them here rather than debate whether or not the media is screwing you. Is the media exploiting bad behavior for ratings? Probably some are. Does that surprise me? Not in the slightest. Is that behavior limited to only lefty causes? Not on your life.
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Posted: 11/17/2015 12:26 PM
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+1
Oh no. I've lost BTC.

And I was so sure he'd have my back.
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Posted: 11/17/2015 12:34 PM
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Oh no. I've lost BTC.

And I was so sure he'd have my back.
BTC is 100% on people need to do their research on issues and form their own opinions, and on this issue the are deep and long running with plenty of documentation.

I will also agree with you Robert that the general population is defunct in their ability to do this.
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Posted: 11/17/2015 1:12 PM
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You can't be bothered to educate yourself about the stance of the protesters involved because "that's not how messaging works?" Then your opinion matters less. Plain and simple.
My opinion matters exactly the same as yours. And if you think the public is going to go out of their way to research the demands of this group, it is you who will be let down.

If these demands are so reasonable, why aren't you repeating them here rather than debate whether or not the media is screwing you. Is the media exploiting bad behavior for ratings? Probably some are. Does that surprise me? Not in the slightest. Is that behavior limited to only lefty causes? Not on your life.
You should actually read what I wrote. Spoiler alert: You're gonna love what I said about how media on both sides of the aisle are equally guilty.

But frankly, I kind of don't think your opinion matters much anymore. This entire thread has consisted of several people saying "despite the many ways the protestors messed up this process, the underlying issues merit discussion." You and ol' Irish McIdontknowwhataswastika is insisted otherwise, and continue to do so. You are steadfastly arguing against discourse on the grounds that you shouldn't have to be bothered to read up on the situation, and your ignorance is justified because these protesters suck.

The irony there, of course, is that this isn't, and hasn't been a discussion of whether or not the protesters methods are strong for anybody but you and The Situation. In fact, everybody is in agreement that the methods were extreme, and that many of the individuals involved screwed up. Everybody else is saying that the issues merit discussion, and you--who have now acknowledged you don't even know what the issues raised were--are insisting they dont. Cool. You've brought a lot to the table here.

Edit: It's also important to note that your summary of The Situation's stance is revisionist, at best. This is the guy who put the phrase "racial taunt" in scare quotes, insisted that black people are simply too sensitive, questioned whether swastikas are even offensive to black people, and argued that you could spraypaint a swastika on the door of every jewish student at NYU and they wouldn't bat an eye. There was also something about how he, as a Christian, has the right to be equally offended by a swastika but wasn't, so ipso facto, black folks are just too damn sensitive. If you want to summarize all of that as a condemnation of protest methodology, feel free to give it a whirl.
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I can't believe that we haven't shipped this thread out to Siberia a long time ago. I guess because we saw a connection to football with the Missouri team.

Certainly it's great to have conversations on important political issues, but I think you all can see why we usually don't allow them on the sports boards at BA.
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Posted: 11/17/2015 2:19 PM
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But frankly, I kind of don't think your opinion matters much anymore.
But I'm the close minded one. Gotcha.

So you want to discuss the merit of the claims, yet you haven't raised a single claim yet. Your whining that we're not discussing the deeper meaning, but you haven't brought those to the fore--only attempted to berate me for not researching further.

I must've missed Situation's claims about jewish reaction to a swastika, but forgive me for doubting your interpretation of his comments. I'm sure he can clarify.

Honestly, you are making far more out of this than it warrants. And before that single phrase sets you into yet another tizzy--understand I'm talking about this ONE SINGLE PROTEST. Not the entire concept of race relations. Not the universal difficulty of man's inhumanity to man. Not some other philosophical rant you may wish to engage in.

Here's a summary for you: I think the Missouri protest was a complete and utter flop. It did nothing to advance the cause. In fact, it damaged the cause because it presented the possibility that these protesters are not very serious people. I would assume you do not want to make this particular protest the poster-child of the race-relations movement, do you? If you want to emphasize that the "big picture" is more important than this protest. Fine. Stop arguing about the protest. Start championing the worthiness of the cause.
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Posted: 11/17/2015 2:59 PM
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But frankly, I kind of don't think your opinion matters much anymore.
But I'm the close minded one. Gotcha.

So you want to discuss the merit of the claims, yet you haven't raised a single claim yet. Your whining that we're not discussing the deeper meaning, but you haven't brought those to the fore--only attempted to berate me for not researching further.

I must've missed Situation's claims about jewish reaction to a swastika, but forgive me for doubting your interpretation of his comments. I'm sure he can clarify.

Honestly, you are making far more out of this than it warrants. And before that single phrase sets you into yet another tizzy--understand I'm talking about this ONE SINGLE PROTEST. Not the entire concept of race relations. Not the universal difficulty of man's inhumanity to man. Not some other philosophical rant you may wish to engage in.

Here's a summary for you: I think the Missouri protest was a complete and utter flop. It did nothing to advance the cause. In fact, it damaged the cause because it presented the possibility that these protesters are not very serious people. I would assume you do not want to make this particular protest the poster-child of the race-relations movement, do you? If you want to emphasize that the "big picture" is more important than this protest. Fine. Stop arguing about the protest. Start championing the worthiness of the cause.

I think the lack of effectiveness of, or interest in, the M.U. protest is demonstrated by the fact that,unless I missed it,the publicity hounds that jump on this type of situation,like Al Sharpton have been silent.
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Posted: 11/17/2015 3:28 PM
Bottom line - President had to go for as the NCAA says, "lack of institutional control." Additionally, he had (and admits) he had lost the faith and goodwill of his constituents - the students and faculty.

None of us know the campus or its atmosphere. And while we yearn for blatant, excessive examples, sometimes it is, as one campus administrator put it "death by a 1,000 paper cuts." It appears that those who feel they had been "cut" their whole life were exhausted that the flagship university of the state did not provide a reprieve. We can debate whether the actions on campus reached a level that warranted a tipping point. But again, None of us know the campus or its atmosphere, so such debate must be clothed within our own experiences.

We all (or close to all) admit there is racism and oppression (be it based on race, gender, economic status, etc.) taking place in our country - the degree is based on personal interaction. My experience in urban and rural south provides a different set of experience than someone in Columbus, Athens, CA, TN or DC... and I am a white, upper middle class male. I also think we all would acknowledge that our country is better than most in providing the opportunity to rise above such oppression. Better than most, but still room for improvement. Perhaps that is why we each do what we can to help those we see not having as cleared a path as we were provided.

While I believe both sides have a general interest in dialogue, dialogue, while incorporating healthy discussion, does not incorporate dismissive, insulting rhetoric. That is not dialogue anymore than compromise is "the other side agreeing with me." Dialogue is give and take. It is for the purpose of communication and education, not to win, or convince - there is a difference between dialogue and debate. The broader issue and concerns raised by Missouri require dialogue, not debate.

Perhaps Missouri will help us move to dialogue - true dialogue. That appears to be an initial move in Columbia, which in itself, will help make the change in Missouri of value.
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Posted: 11/17/2015 3:37 PM
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