Bobcat Love's Sense of Shame
12/6/2019 7:58 AM
https://m.facebook.com/peter.ford.7334/posts/242316423794... “I’m extremely upset with my university. As a student at Ohio University I was physically assaulted on October 15th by a random student while on my way to a late night class. This class takes place after band rehearsal so I wear my practice uniform to this class. As I was taking the steps, a random student came by and shoved me into the railing and proceeded to yell “f*** you hazer”. As I tried to stand back up and comprehend what just occurred, the student fled with his hood up so I would not see who it was. I reported this to the university and nothing has been done. Today, long after the fact, most, NOT ALL, members of the marching 110 received an email from the university. The attached photos are the email received. Essentially stating that nothing will be done, and the marching 110 members need to just suck it up, go to therapy, and finish classes. The extreme lack of support has made me lose faith in my university I used to so proudly call my home. I fear walking alone, I am discouraged from wearing my organizations apparel, and my right to freedom of speech was violated. When I attended my “interview” that caused me to miss two of my classes, I was almost told that I was not allowed to bring an attorney. I’m disheartened by the university’s actions, but nothing, and I mean absolutely nothing, will make me ashamed of wearing my band jacket. I am a proud member of the Marching 110. For the past generations, for the future generations, and for the people I’m so thankful to call my family, the Marching 110 has given me hope, inspiration, and strength. Our traditions, our perseverance, and our unity will last long after I’ve left this outstanding group of musicians.”
I have no idea what happened to this kid. But I just want to point out something incredibly ironic about BobcatAttack. Just a little ethnographic study, if you will.
1. 27 women (and counting) accuse Donald Trump of sexual assault, which he then discusses on a 'hot' mic. Posters here doubt the stories.
2. Several women come forward to accuse Brett Kavanaugh of inappropriate behavior. Posters here doubt the stories.
3. Roy Moore is accused credibly of preying on young children. Posters here doubt the stories.
4. A kid says he was shoved by a fellow student and told "fuck you hazer" and it goes completely unquestioned.
In case you're scoring at home, there's people here who at one point have claimed all of the following. And they all happen to be on the same side:
1. This is a witch hunt that's just an excuse to ban fraternities forever.
2. The is an anti fraternity conspiracy.
3. Nellis and the Dean should be fired because we don't know any information.
4. Nellis and the Dean should be fired because we do know information and don't like it.
5. The accusations against sororities and student groups were perpetrated by an angry frat guy and completely made up.
6. Zero tolerance policies on hazing are akin to the drug war. (By the way, people nodding in agreement with this Alan Swank's point in this case voted for a man who called for the death penalty for drug dealers. You know, because they're anti-drug war.)
7. The Ohio University student body, 45% of which is currently too high to figure out how a vending machine works, now includes hooded vigilantes attacking marching band members in the dark of night and calling them "hazers."
A few times early into this I remarked on how baffling it is that Americans all seem so desperate to cast themselves as victims. I stand by that.
Interestingly, the only group here that doesn't seem to have garnered any support at all on ol' BobcatAttack is the victims of hazing themselves. Far, far less outrage that the people responsible for Colin Wiant's death didn't face any legal consequences. Or that the his fraternity brothers refused to cooperate with police.
The University made plenty of unforced errors here. There are plenty of valid reasons to be frustrated. But let's try and embrace some nuance here. Things don't have to be all of one thing or another. As I keep saying, there's all sorts of very comfortable middle ground here.