Bobcat Love's Sense of Shame
10/10/2019 8:32 AM
Just saw the 3 sororities and business fraternity. Not a conspiracy theory guy, however, I do wonder if there is not an agenda being carried out by new administration.
Though I like to harass OCF, I have no doubt on his information regarding his Frat, I know people have deep ties to these groups and follow and have concern for happenings. I've had others tell me that they have yet to be informed of what's going on. Throw in the fact that we have a statement from OUPD and APD that there is no criminal behavior, makes you go hmmmm.
It's not at all surprising that the people here most upset with this decision to begin with are now growing more and more certain this is a witch hunt.
Me? I look at OCF's insistence that his frat's done nothing wrong and are baffled with a healthy dose of skepticism.
I mean, does anybody here want to start swapping fraternity hazing stories? Is there any doubt at all that we could put together a list of 30 things we know happened at OU fraternities in the past that would more than justify this decision? And now we're being asked to believe that that behavior's completely gone and the University is waging some conspiracy against Greek life?
I lived with two frat guys for two years at OU. During rush, the pledges would have to visit all of the active members houses one after another and basically anything was fair game. Even what I witnessed -- as somebody who wasn't actually in a frat -- crossed lines of safety, without question. I dated a few girls in sororities. I heard their hazing stories. Again, anybody want to argue with a straight face that this isn't happening?
I mean, look at this conversation on r/frat:
https://www.reddit.com/r/Frat/comments/9g3rky/your_favori... /
Every response is a joke about how their frat doesn't haze people. That's the party line. What else would they say in this case but that they haven't done anything?
On another note:
I'm really not sure why everybody is so intent on flocking to the extremes nowadays. It's a super weird reflex. Why assume some conspiracy when there are simple, logical explanations that make so much more sense?
This one's really crazy simple. It's kind of hilarious how desperate people are to believe otherwise.
Fraternities haze pledges. Most of it's harmless, sometimes it crosses lines. When a pledge died last year, it increased scrutiny to the point that the University needed to take this 'drastic' step to ensure student health. It's a risk arbitrage. It makes perfect, reasonable sense even if it's unpopular. And over the course of the next 3 months, all frats will be re-instated, or if serious violations were found, some will be suspended permanently and the details released. The University will get to be seen as having been proactive, and nobody will ultimately have faced any sort of serious consequence.
But conspiracy's are more fun. And it lets people feel victimized and maligned, which has become America's most popular past time these days. So I get it.
Last Edited: 10/10/2019 8:44:17 AM by Bobcat Love's Sense of Shame