1. They all believe they can play at a higher level and should be playing more. 2. They have adults with no experience giving them poor advice.
One of friend's sons started wrestling when he was about 10 years old.
The kid was decent at the youth level.
But his parents, neither of whom knew much about wrestling ,were convinced he was going to be the next Dan Gable and get a full ride to college.
Right now he's a Junior in High School.
Again, decent wrestler.
Wrestled a few matches at Varsity, but not a starter.
The kid loves the sport and wants to continue in college.
I told his parents, he should choose a college for academics and try to find
a program that fits his talent level.