As a 50 year old fan ('83) I care if a player comes to play the games fully prepared mentally, physically, emotionally and passionately. How he/she “gets there” is the coach’s job. And if that means giving a guy a day or two to get his mojo back - I'm all for it.
And one wonders why players look at fans cockeyed. Let’s just assume it is related to depth chart.
Fan: Son, I hear you took a few practices off in August.
Player: Yea I did. I had focused all my energy and passion on being the starting quarterback for this team and it knocked me down to lose that opportunity. I just needed a day or two to get my mind around it.
Fan: Well, I don’t appreciate you not waking up everyday being fully committed to this team.
Player: I am committed to this team and my teammates. That’s evident in February when I wake up at 5:30 for lifting and in August when we are out there in 90 degree heat. Bedsides, I didn’t skip a practice. I talked to the coaches and they excused me from practice so that I could get myself refocused. If you have a problem with me missing practice, talk to the coach.
Fan: No, I’m talking to you. We fans go out of our way to come see you play on Saturday and we deserver total commitment.
Player: And we appreciate you coming out and supporting us. It makes it a lot easier to get through practice knowing the fans will be there for us come the weekend. I don’t dog it on the field. I want this team to win more than anyone else. I put my body on the line every time I touch the ball. With one purpose: Help this team win.
Fan: But back in August, for those 48 hours, you did dog it.
Player: What are you, 45? 50? Have you ever had to call an employee into your office and move them off a dream account because you had a better person for that job? The first guy is still valuable, but it just made sense to shift accounts. I’m sure the first guy was bummed out. My Business Administration prof. says he has done it and gave the guy a few days to get his head around it. It was how he responded on the job that that was important, not that he left the office waving the company pom-poms. Well, I’m that first guy. Judge me by how I come out of this.
Fan: Don’t give me this real life crap. You are football player – a kid, not an adult. I expect more from you. And by the way, I saw you walking to the water break at practice on Tuesday. I need to see a little more hustle.