...Part of my frustration probably comes from being an educator for so many years. If a student wasn't pulling his/her weight, they would hear it from me. Grades are given out for a reason. This is not 4th grade soccer where everyone gets a trophy. It's real life! There are winners and losers - sorry, but that is reality. The real world isn't always sunshine and lollipops.
No one - whether on this site or in any other setting - should feel guilt tripped by discussing the on-field performance of one of our players. These MEN fully demand excellence of themselves and we should hold the same expectation.
There is very little similarity between your example and what happens here. In the case of your students, if their performance wasn't adequate, they heard it from you. If they players aren't performing adequately, they hear it from their coach. So far, so good. If your students aren't performing adequately, do they walk into the coffee shop, and hear the people there discussing how badly they did on their last test? No. Do they get on the internet and find their performance in class being critiqued by people that that could not have passed the same test themselves? No. Their grades are considered private, and they aren't held up to public ridicule. The situations are entirely different.
Next let's look at the situation at hand. The argument in favor of public criticism is that they are public figures. The argument against it is that they are amateurs, not paid professionals. The "public figure" argument is usually used only for paid professionals, such as politicians, actors, pro athletes, etc. I personally tend to go with the approach that they are just amateurs, and not really public figures. They do get scholarships, but they also have to work hard, year round, and risk injury. In the end I can see why some take the "public figure" approach, but personally, I don't.
A second reason I won't publicly criticize players is simple manners. I don't think it's right to say something on here that I wouldn't be willing to say to the person in person, to his face. Again, there is room for disagreement. Some of you might say these things to players standing in front of them. I wouldn't, so I try not to say them on here.
In the end, I expect there will be differences of opinion on these points. Some people feel obviously feel that its appropriate to attack individual players, so they do, but i don't, so I won't, or at least, I try not to.
Last Edited: 10/10/2014 9:28:52 AM by L.C.