You realize that this is just one side's view?
What you seem to be failing to understand is that regardless if he did some stupid things, or some embarrassing things, the University still has to follow contract law and have proper reasons. If they had that they should have publicly expressed those. What they expressed was not grounds for what they did. The basketball player also has a seemingly great shot at owning a piece of the Univeraity. Especially with NIL, you can now put values on the damages.
This was essentially my fear all along. That this won't go away and the University keeps getting brought up in a 'negative' light. That this would go to court, mud slinging would go down. Furthering the chaos and the newscycle. OU's reputation as a party school gets thrown around and joked about.
Simple and straight forward:
Can an employee - not a teacher - date a student he has no authority over? I mean, the laws of common sense say don't do that when you're the most visible face of the university, BUT common sense is rarely contractual, is that expressly written?
I'm guessing that answer is no, it is not written. Otherwise, this would be open and shut. There would be no lawsuit. You violated a clause in your contract, regardless if you think it's silly or invasive or your wife doesn't care, you signed it, you violated it. Done. And done. Unfortunately, I think we're gonna end up the ones with egg on our faces. Especially when University lawyers delve into rumors of his drinking and try to pin him with all sorts of stuff that would invoke a morality clause and he is forced to defend himself against it.
I mean, they hold official OU events, Bobcat Caravans with coaches and admins at BREWERIES. I wasn't cup watching, but I'm pretty certain everyone had a beer. Even Julie. So to turn around and say, oh well - THAT is allowed. But you can't drink in your office after games is... gonna be interesting. Unless they have assistants with proof that he was drinking during practice or games, something Sark level.
Like I said months ago, this whole thing just makes me sad. From both sides. I feel for him. I feel for the University that had to deal with the news breaking. I feel bad for the wife. I feel bad for the kids. I feel bad for everyone who keeps having to deal with this.