This is a conversation that started because 54% of George Washington University students felt the name "Colonials" is inherently offensive.
I think there are a lot of words- offensive, racist, for example- that mean very different things to different age groups. And we react to them with our own understanding rather than how someone else might understand it. And I think that's something that causes a lot of the tension we see between groups.
I respect this, but it's also a good way to neatly fold our hands and never change anything in life.
Mmm. Didn't think of it that way. To get to real progress, we need to get past binary questions like, "Is this offensive?" Because I'm skeptical of how useful the question is. If you're going to ask me is Colonials offensive, I'd probably say yes. But what does that mean? Do you understand why I said yes, or are you applying your own perspective? Because for me, in this context, I'm not getting upset or "outraged," as people like to say. What I am thinking is, yeah, that's probably not a good idea, colonialism did a lot of damage and I wouldn't want to represent that. No foaming at the mouth, just a preference for something else.
Chief Wahoo is probably a good example of a flashpoint. There are a lot of people who love Wahoo. There are a lot of people who want him gone. I don't see any way you're going to satisfy both crowds. So whose feelings matter more, and why? Those are the conversations that need to happen, not, "Who is offended?"