There is really no scenario in which Groce could leave this offseason and earn my blessing (maybe partially due to a genetic predisposition to 'extreme loyalty'). He didn't finish what he signed up for.
I'm an appreciative guy. It's my senior year and I'm a dedicated Bobcat. I realize, whether directly or indirectly, John Groce is responsible for the only two "name" victories in my time here, football or basketball (Georgetown and Michigan).
I say this to establish some form of credibility. I'm not a delusional fanboy. I deserve nothing and expect nothing more from John Groce than to give his best effort and fulfill his contractual obligations.
I'm hung up on the contract. It's convenient for Groce to leave at his leisure, when his stock is highest; I'm aware that many others in his position do the same. That does not change that he left with a couple years left to remain accountable to this university.
This was one of the best teams this school has ever assembled. He said it was a once in a lifetime opportunity to coach at Illinois and he was right. But he neglected to mention that it was a once in a lifetime opportunity to coach at Ohio University next year. It was a once in a lifetime opportunity to honor his commitment to this school and to these players. And in fact it was a once in a lifetime opportunity to take this team to its maximum potential and then move forward as fate may have it.
I don't buy the family/proximity claim. It's far too convenient. His parents have divorced and both have remarried (at least that's what I gathered from the press conference) . Even if they both still currently lived in the quaint town of Danville, IN, I can't imagine many people who collect Social Security going on two hour road trips with any regularity (sure Groce has little kids, they get anxious and the drive would be taxing on them too. But if the extra 170 is so taxing, how ever did he manage the years he spent at Ohio and A&M?).
I'm kind of rambling, but long story short I agree with Bobcat8811. Most posters give Groce a free pass even though he clearly disrespected this university. It's the easy choice to let him off the hook, feel warm on the inside that he loves his family and will move on to "follow his dreams". I don't often take the easy choice.
I'll do my best now to stop beating the dead horse, especially as I think you've summed it up best. Yours is the attitude I'd expect most OU fans to have -- instead, to my surprise, most here are blowing kisses at the guy who basically thumbed his nose at them, and the entire program. I simply don't get it.
I'm glad you see through all the hogwash -- especially the whole "Illinois is my love, my dream" nonsense. And sorry, nobody who is sincere with all the tears, and all the choked-up speeches, turns around and just leaves that easily -- especially when you've got a school begging you to stay. You have to be downright pathological to act like that.
And maybe you're like me -- tired of all the coaches who preach loyalty and sacrifice to their players, but throw that stuff all aside when it comes to their own personal gain. Groce had both the contractual and MORAL obligation to see it through one more year, considering that the whole team was coming back. Instead, as the commenter states, Groce chose to do what was
convenient for
him -- the rest of you be uh, darned.
And not only that, he chose to shrink from the opportunity that might TRULY define him as great -- the shot to take a MAC team even further next season. Yeah, there are risks with that -- yeah the team could flop, and you lose your place at Illinois. But the alternative -- NOT taking the chance -- defines you as a weenie IMHO.
As you've said, and I agree -- all you expect from Groce is simply for him to fulfill his obligation, his promise. And to realize the true "once in a lifetime" opportunity he had to finish what he started, with probably the best team this school has ever fielded. He failed on both counts. Maybe that makes him just another of the coaching crowd, and we should all just shrug our shoulders, and salute the American way. Fine -- but to throw roses at the guy on his way out the door to Paydayville, well, that's another thing entirely.